Twenty seven years ago, I held my first born son and feed him, followed later by his sisters.
Now they are grown up and the nest is almost empty now! (as Jeremy and Sarah are presently overseas).
So nowadays, I hold this kitten and feed her (at least I think its a her)
When they were babies, I gave them rubber ones!
When I am old, they give me this "diamond" one!
According to Esther, this charm resembling the pacifier is an acknowledgement of all the love and care given by the mother to the children ("how yan"). Besides the elements in the crystals are good for our health, body and of course luck and wealth etc.
Thanks for the lovely birthday gift!